St. Joseph — The Saint Who Raised the Son of God and Never Said a Word
He raised the Son of God — and never spoke a single word in Scripture. Not a greeting. Not a complaint. Not an explanation.
In this episode of Everyday Saints, a Catholic podcast telling real saint stories in plain, everyday language, we tell the true story of St. Joseph — the quiet man who absorbed a devastating prophecy in silence, packed up his family in the middle of the night to outrun a king who wanted his son dead, and stood by wordlessly while that same son, at twelve years old, pointed past him to a different Father. St. Joseph is the patron saint of workers, families, the dying, the universal Church, and of immigrants and refugees, and his feast day is March 19th. More episodes, transcripts, and the full story at everydaysaintspodcast.com.
00:00 - - Not a Single Word
01:08 - - Two Quick Things Before We Start
01:57 - - The Working Man From Nazareth
05:35 - - A 90-Mile Walk for the Government
07:36 - - A Five-Alarm Fire in the Night
09:37 - - True or Legend?
13:11 - - Two More Dreams and a Missing Boy
17:39 - - How a Silent Man Became a Saint
18:54 - - Back on the Porch
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There is a man tucked quietly right into the
very beginning of the greatest story ever told.
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A man who raised the son of God, protected him
as a fragile baby when the walls were closing
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in, scooped up his family in the pitch black
of night and ran for the border to save a life
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that wasn't biologically his. Spent hours standing
at a wooden workbench, teaching the creator
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of the universe how to swing a hammer and build
things with his own two hands. and across every
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single page of ancient scripture. This man never
says one single word, not a greeting, not a
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complaint, not an explanation.
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Hi, my name is John O'Connor and this is Everyday
Saints. This is episode 17. If you're new here,
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so you don't miss next week. We look at a new
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saint every Thursday. Before we jump into today's
story, just two quick pieces of housekeeping.
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First, if you usually listen to the show over
on YouTube or Rumble, you're going to notice
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that it's just the audio track this week without
the usual graphics on the screen. It will probably
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be audio only there for the next few weeks.
I am right in the middle of packing up my house
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and moving back to North Carolina. So getting
these boxes packed has to be my top priority
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right now. If I find some extra time, I'll get
back to the visuals, but for now we are keeping
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it simple. Second thing, some of you have already
stumbled across it, but the new website officially
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went live this past week. You can find it at
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if you could head over there, click around,
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All right, you all already know this man's name.
This is the story of Saint Joseph. To really
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understand Joseph, you have to picture where
he started. The Bible doesn't spend time romanticizing
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him. Joseph was a working man living in a small
town called Nazareth. The kind of place most
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people would have called a dusty nothing, barely
worth a map marker. The New Testament calls
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him a tecton. It's a Greek word usually watered
down to carpenter, but it meant a general builder.
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Wood, stone, martyr, whatever the job required
that week. This was a guy with calloused hands,
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dust in his eyes, and sore joints at the end
of the day. Not wealthy, not powerful. just
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a normal guy engaged to a young woman named
Mary living an ordinary, invisible life nobody
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writes books about. Then everything blew up.
Joseph found out Mary was pregnant, and he
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knew without absolute certainty this child wasn't
his. Now put yourself in his shoes for a second.
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In our modern world, if an engagement falls
apart, it's messy, but you move on with relative
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privacy. but in first century Jewish culture,
being betrothed back then, think of it like
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an engagement that already carried the legal
weight of a real marriage, meant breaking it
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wasn't like calling off a modern day wedding.
It was closer to a formal divorce, complete
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with public scrutiny and a massive community
fallout. A woman found pregnant outside of
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that bond could face severe social danger. Under
strict traditional law, things could go terribly
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wrong for her. Joseph had every right to make
a massive scene, expose her publicly, demand
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a trial, and walk away vindicated while she
faced total ruin. But the Bible specifically
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calls him a righteous man. To a first century
Jew, being righteous meant you followed the
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law of Moses to the letter. And the law was
very clear. He couldn't just sweep this under
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the rug and marry her anyway. His strict faith
in righteousness meant he had to break the
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betrothal. But this is where you see the absolute
brilliance of his character. He was bound by
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his faith to walk away, but he refused to let
the law be used to destroy her. He didn't demand
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his rights as a wronged Instead, he decided
to handle it as quietly and privately as the
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law allowed. He was fully prepared to absorb
the whispered questions and the silent judgment
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of his neighbors himself, rather than hand her
over to the mob. Before he knew about a virgin
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birth or divine plans, he looked at a devastating
situation, found the only path that honored
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God without destroying a vulnerable woman, and
chose to carry the weight of it himself. He
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didn't need a vision to tell him how to be a
decent human being. Then, after he made that
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merciful choice, an angel showed up in his first
recorded dream to drop the rest of the puzzle
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pieces into place. The child was conceived by
the Holy Spirit. Take Mary as your wife. Name
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the boy Jesus. Joseph woke up and he did exactly
what the angels said. No argument, no hesitation,
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just pure, quiet obedience. Before Joseph even
had a chance to figure out how to build a nursery,
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he had to deal with the government. If you read
the Gospel of Luke, it tells us that Caesar
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Augustus ordered a massive census across the
empire. And because Joseph was a direct descendant
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of King David, Roman law required him to go
all the way back to his family's ancestral
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hometown to register. That meant packing up
Mary, who was heavily pregnant and leaving
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Nazareth to travel down to Bethlehem. If you
look at a map, that is nearly a 90 mile journey.
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We always picture Mary riding comfortably on
a donkey, but the Bible doesn't actually mention
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one. What we do know is that a poor builder
and his pregnant fiance had to make a grueling,
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exhausting trip across rough terrain just to
fill out government paperwork. When they finally
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made it to Bethlehem, the town was packed. They
ended up in a space meant for animals, which
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is where Jesus was born, a stable. The dust
settled, the shepherds showed up with their
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wild stories, and for a brief moment, you would
think Joseph could finally catch his breath.
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Forty days after Jesus was born, Joseph and
Mary brought the baby to the temple in Jerusalem
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to present him to the Lord. While they were
standing there, an old prophet named Simeon
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approached them, not to be confused with last
week's story about Saint Simeon Stylite, born
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in 3090 AD. He took the baby Jesus in his arms
and began to prophecy. He looked right at Mary
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and told her that this child would cause the
falling and rising of many in Israel. and that
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a sword would pierce her own soul too. And Joseph
was standing right there for all of it. He
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heard every word. As the human protector of
this family, Joseph had to silently absorb
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that massive, terrifying weight. He knew from
that exact moment in the temple that protecting
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this child was not going to be simple. He knew
pain and opposition were coming, and he stepped
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up to carry that burden anyway. The danger Simeon
hinted at didn't take long to arrive. While
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they were still in Bethlehem, Joseph got his
second dream. This time, it wasn't a gentle
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message of comfort. It was a five-alarm fire.
King Herod, ruling the region as a brutal puppet
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of Rome, had caught wind of rumors that a newborn
king of the Jews had been born. Herod was not
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a stable man. History outside the Bible confirms
his final years were marked by a vicious paranoia.
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He routinely executed members of his own family
over the slightest suspicion of treason. But
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a rumored king, born in his own backyard, was
all it took to make him lose his mind. The
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angel's warning in the dream was blunt. Get
up. Take Mary and the baby. Flee to Egypt tonight.
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Do not wait for sunrise. So what does Joseph
do? He doesn't ask for a meeting. He doesn't
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wait to see if things blow over in the morning.
He gets up in the middle of the night, gathers
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whatever meager belongings they can carry,
wakes his exhausted wife and newborn baby,
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and starts walking toward the Egyptian border.
Think about the sheer weight of that moment.
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A young family walking away in the dark from
everything they have ever known, heading into
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a foreign country where they don't know the
culture. They don't have a job lined up and
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they likely don't speak the language. Why? Because
a tyrant wanted their innocent child dead and
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an angel in the dream spoke to Joseph. Harad
soldiers arrived and went through Bethlehem
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and slaughtered every boy two years and younger.
Joseph's split-second obedience, packing up
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the middle of the night without a single argument,
is literally the only reason Jesus survived
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the massacre. They lived as refugees in Egypt
for an unknown stretch of time, waiting in
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the shadows of a foreign land until the danger
finally passed. Let's pause the narrative for
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a second and do something completely different
that we haven't done on this show. A few things
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get said about Joseph constantly, repeated
so often that people assume they are rock-solid
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history, but when you dig into the text, you
find out they aren't. So, let's play a game.
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I'm going to give you three common claims about
Joseph. Some are true, some are pure legend.
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So see if you can guess which is which. Claim
number one, when Joseph presented baby Jesus
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at the temple, the specific offering he brought
proved that his family was living in poverty.
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Claim number two, Joseph was an old man, already
a widower with grown children from a previous
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marriage. by the time he married Mary. Claim
three, Joseph died with Jesus and Mary both
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kneeling at his side, which is why he is traditionally
considered the patron saint of a peaceful death.
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Got your guesses locked in? Okay, so let's look
at them. Claim one is true, completely true.
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In the Old Testament, the Book of Leviticus
laid out the rules for a new baby. The parents
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were supposed to bring a lamb to the temple
for a sacrifice, but the law included a specific
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exception. If the family was too poor to afford
a lamb, they could bring two doves or two pigeons
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instead. When we read the Gospel of Luke, that
is exactly what Joseph brings. It is solid
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biblical proof that the man raising the son
of God was genuinely poor. Claimed too is legend.
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It does not come from the Bible at all. That
idea comes from a piece of Christian fiction
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written more than a century after Joseph's lifetime,
which tried to invent a backstory explaining
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why Jesus later has people in the gospels referred
to as his brothers and sisters. That image
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stuck around for centuries. which is why old
European paintings show Joseph looking like
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an ancient grandfather standing awkwardly in
the corner, but it's tradition, not history.
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Serious historians think he was likely a young
man, much closer to Mary's own age, ready to
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raise a family from scratch. Claim number three
is the trickiest one. The Bible never actually
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records Joseph's death. We only infer that it
happened before Jesus launched his own public
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ministry simply because Joseph completely drops
out of the narrative. Later on, when Jesus
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is dying on the cross, he entrusts the care
of his mother to his disciple, John, rather
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than her husband, a husband who was almost certainly
no longer alive. The deeply moving tradition
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that Joseph died a peaceful death in a cozy
bed with Jesus and Mary holding his hands?
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Well, that's a sweet devout piece of later devotion
built on a reasonable guess. You won't find
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it written down as objective fact in scripture.
Some of what gets attached to a saint over
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the centuries is rock solid. Some of it is a
reasonable guess, and some of it is just makes
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for a really nice painting on a church wall.
All right, let's continue on with Joseph's
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story. While they were hiding out as refugees
down in Egypt waiting out the tyrants wrath,
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Joseph received his third dream. The angel
told him that Herod had finally died and it
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was safe to head home to Israel. But Joseph,
well, he was a protector and he was cautious.
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When they crossed the border back into the region,
Joseph found out that Herod's son, Archelaus,
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who was just as unstable and violent as his
father, had inherited the throne of Judea.
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That's when Joseph got his fourth and final
dream, a specific urgent divine warning to
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steer completely clear of that territory. Instead
of settling near Jerusalem, he rerouted his
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family all the way back up north to the safety
of the Galilean Hills, settling back down
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in the quiet tiny town of Nazareth. He picked
his toolbox back up and spent the next several
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years raising a boy who learned what honest,
hardworking integrity looked like by watching
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his adoptive dad work day in and day out. Fast
forward to when Jesus is 12. Every year, the
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family made the trip down to Jerusalem for Passover,
usually walking with a huge crowd of relatives
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and neighbors. On the way home. They make it
a full day down the road before they realize
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Jesus isn't with them. Now, if you are a parent,
that sounds crazy. How do you lose your kid
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for an entire day? But I caution that thought.
Think of this like a giant family reunion on
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the move. You just assume your 12 year old is
hanging out with his cousins or walking with
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the neighbors a little further back in the crowd.
It isn't until the sun starts going down that
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you realize nobody has actually seen him. They
panic. They turn around, retrace a full day's
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walk and search the chaotic streets of Jerusalem
for three agonizing days before they finally
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find him. Mary bursts in completely stressed
out and running on zero sleep. She asks why
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he would do this to them. And she specifically
says, Your father and I have been searching
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for you in agony. Jesus answers her directly
asking, why were you searching? Didn't you
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know I had to be in my father's house? Do not
miss what just happened there. Three sleepless
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nights, three days walking every street in Jerusalem,
imagining the worst. And the second they finally
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find him, Mary doesn't hold back. She says,
Your father and I have been searching for you
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in agony. Your father. She means Joseph, plain
and simple, the man who raised him. And it's
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Jesus' answer that stings. He doesn't correct
her about who raised him, but he answers by
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pointing somewhere else entirely. Didn't you
know I had to be in my father's house? Capital
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F, not the workshop back in Nazareth. Not the
man who just spent three days combing every
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street in Jerusalem for him. God's house. If
you are a dad or you've ever wanted to be,
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sit with that for a second. You show up every
single day. You do the work nobody sees. And
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in the very same breath where your own wife
calls you father, without a second thought,
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your son's answer quietly points past you to
somebody else. But I also want you to listen
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to what Joseph does with that. He doesn't correct
him. He doesn't get his feelings hurt or pull
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rank as the man of the house. He just stands
there, silent, exactly the way he stood through
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everything else. Because somewhere along the
way, he'd already made peace with the fact
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that this boy was never fully his to begin with.
He was raising the son of God. And if that
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meant swallowing the sting for the sake of something
bigger than himself, Joseph was going to swallow
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it. It is wild when you look at church history
and realize how long it took institutional
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Christianity to figure out what to do with Joseph.
For much of early Christian history, devotion
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to Joseph was surprisingly quiet. While Mary
and the major apostles were getting massive
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cathedrals built in their honor, Joseph sat
in the background of church life. That started
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shifting during the Middle Ages and the momentum
picked up steam over the last couple of centuries.
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In 1870, Pope Pius IX formally declared Joseph
the patron of the entire universal church,
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a massive elevation for a guy who never uttered
a single line of dialogue. Nearly a century
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later, in 1955, Pope Pius XII established a
second feast day specifically for him, St.
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Joseph the Worker, deliberately placed on May
1st to align with the Global Workers' Holiday.
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And as recently as 2021, Pope Francis declared
a special year of St. Joseph. A guy who never
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says a word in the text somehow keeps getting
more attention as the centuries march on, not
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less. All right. Back to the porch. I honestly
don't think Joseph ever set out to prove anything
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to anybody. I don't think he was trying to leave
a legacy or get his name carved into stone.
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I just think he woke up every single morning
and kept doing the next necessary thing over
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and over again without ever once needing a pat
on the back. Look at the trail of what he actually
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does across these stories. He protects a young
woman's dignity before he has any legal or
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social reason to do so. He wakes up in the middle
of the night and drags his family across international
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borders to save a child that doesn't even share
his DNA. He spends three panic days tearing
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through a crowded city looking for a boy who
wasn't even lost on purpose. Every single one
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of those things is an action. Not one of them
comes with a press release or a quote attached.
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We live in a world that trains us to believe
that the things we say out loud are the things
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that actually count. Post it online, announce
your intentions, explain your reasons to the
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crowd, build your personal brand. Joseph never
got that option. And looking at his life, I
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don't think he would have taken it if he had.
He just did the next hard, necessary thing,
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and he let the doing be the entire statement.
Here's what I keep landing on with him. And
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it hits a little different than the story of
St. Simeon we talked about last week. Simeon
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tried to disappear from the world by climbing
to the top of a pillar, but the crowds found
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him anyway. He couldn't escape the spotlight.
Joseph, he never tried to disappear at all.
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He just never made himself the center of anything.
Fading quietly into the background is simply
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what happens to a man who refuses to make everything
about himself. Two very different guys standing
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in different centuries, but both of them telling
us something desperately true. The loudest
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part of your life isn't always the part that
matters the most. So here's the question I'm
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sitting with this week. Where in your own life
are you doing the right thing quietly, with
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nobody watching and no grand plan to ever explain
yourself to anyone? And can you find a way
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to let that just be enough? Not because someone
is going to put a plaque up with your name
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on it, but because it was never about being
known in the first place. Think on that. It
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is now time for the closing prayer. Lord, thank
you for Joseph. Thank you for a man who protected,
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provided, and obeyed without ever needing
to be heard doing it. For anyone listening
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right now who feels like their quiet faithfulness
is going completely unnoticed, let them trust
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that you saw every single one of Joseph's silent
choices and you see theirs too. Give us his
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kind of courage, the kind that acts first.
and explains never. Amen. Well, St. Joseph
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is recognized as the patron saint of workers,
of families, of the dying, of the universal
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church, and of immigrants and refugees. His
primary feast day is celebrated on March 19th
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with a second feast, St. Joseph the worker,
marked on May 1st. Well, that's episode 17.
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If this one gave you something to sit with,
do me a favor. and send it to somebody who
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needs to hear it today. And hey, if you did
make it this far, all the way to the end,
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can I ask you for something? Hit follow on Apple
Podcasts or Spotify, and if you got 30 seconds,
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leave a rating. I'm not chasing numbers just
to chase them. I'm trying to get this show
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into the top 200 in the religion category.
And follows and ratings are exactly what moves
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that needle. That's the whole ask. Next week,
we are back to an unknown saint. This one
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starts with a father who couldn't let go of
his grief, and it ends with an entire town
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that centuries later is still taking in the
very people the rest of the world turns away.
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I do think this one's gonna stick with me.
I'm John O'Connor. Thanks for sitting on the
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porch with me, and I will see you next week.
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you